College Life – Should You Join A Fraternity or Sorority To Improve Your Sex Life?

Should you join a fraternity or sorority to jump up your sex life in college?

Well, that is a big myth. In the beginning, when you pledge you'll be more likely to spend time with your sisters and brothers being haze vs dating around.

Greek life may be one of the most defining aspects of college. Many of you may dream of joining a Sorority or Fraternity before entering college, but there are a few things you need to think about before you join.

Eventually, you might get more time to open up and meet new people but you'll realize that maybe more than a semester or so. But do beware of fraternities and sororities because they do often times reinforce stereotypical gender roles. It's not about friends. Not to be mean, but a lot of people join because they want friends. Being part of Greek life is a great way to meet friends, but you can also meet friends outside of Greek life. It may not be as easy, but it is doable. So think of other reasons why you want to join.

Joining a fraternity or sorority is a big decision. It costs money. Like all things in life, going Greek comes at a price. It costs a lot of money to live in a Sorority or Fraternity house as well as all the other expenses you will have to pay. Many social fraternities and sororities are big time commitments; this can be great, but if time is at a minimum for you, you may want to find out more about what is involved. Many social fraternities and sororities also have costly membership dues that must be paid on a regular basis. Before you join, talk with your parents to see if you can handle the expense.

Colleges usually have specific times each semester when you can join a fraternity or sorority. During that time, make sure to ask about time commitments, financial obligations, and anything else you want more information on. Remember: it's okay to ask questions! Don't be afraid of looking silly. If nothing else, your curiosity will indicate that you are really interested in a specific organization and want to find out all you can about it.

One important thing to note, however, is that hazing should never be a part of your pledge process to a fraternity or sorority. Not only are there rules at your school against it, but there are also quite a few laws prohibiting hazing in any form. Even if you think it’s okay and part of a historical process, it's not something that should be taking place. Any fraternity or sorority worth joining is going to make sure that all "initiations" are healthy, fun, and in an environment that supports positive choices. If your alarm bells are going off, listen to them and avoid any situations that make you feel uncomfortable.

Better to choose wisely which fraternity or sorority. What are the reputations of that house that you are joining because you might end up with that reputation for the rest of your college career. Ask around and find one that you're gonna be most comfortable with.

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Think telling him a little white lie can’t hurt? Wrong! A guy reveals the tall tales that could cost you true love... So listen up!

First, don't lie about how much you like sports. Your interest in sports isn't as important to him as you think. Your interest in sports isn't as important to him as you think. If you really aren’t that interested in his favorite football or basketball team, it shouldn’t bother him one bit. But if he takes sports seriously and you’re misquoting stats, butchering player's names and feigning interest in the score, it will be more annoying than endearing. He will know if your interest is genuine or not, so don’t fake it.

You love his college friends and don't mind if they come over. If you’re not “cool” with his inner circle, you shouldn’t pretend to be. While you should keep an open mind when getting to know them, it's imperative that you find a way to be open with him about your reservations instead of forcing yourself to hang out with people you just don’t care for.

The Ex-Factor. If your ex is still in the picture, say so. It’s just as important not to hide a connection to an ex, as it is for him to reveal any college girl in his life. As long as you both keep it real in this department, there will be no unwanted surprises.

Your number. Discussing your college sex life is always tricky, but it's unavoidable if things between you are becoming serious. I know most college girls won't be in agreement here but, when it does come up, I say be open and honest about it. If he asks how many people you've slept with before him, don't give him the "safe" number. Give your college boyfriend the real one. If he can't handle your answer, that's on him—not you. He should've taken heed when his mother told him to never ask a college girl a question you don't want the answer to.

The "real" you. Additions and enhancements are cool, but at some point the man you’re dating should be able to meet the real you. I know that at times certain outfits may require some "help.” But don’t let padded bras, body shapers and hair weaves mask the real you. That’s who he is most interested in, promise. Or at least, Mr. Right should be.

Your bedroom activities. Don’t ever tell your college boyfriend he’s the best you’ve ever had unless it's the actual truth. You may want to feed his ego, but it won’t work that way if you’re lying. If you tell your college boyfriend that he's the best then he has no room to improve. Compliment him but don't overdo it. He’ll appreciate it the realness.

Your marriage goals. Most college girls assume that talking about marriage will scare a man off, but that’s false. The man that’s right for you will want to know where you really stand—especially if he’s on a different path. There is a way to be open about where you desire to be in the future in terms of your relationship without putting too much pressure on the present situation. Saying you don’t want to be married when you clearly do, will send him running for the hills.

Keeping it real counts! Keeping things honest will help you avoid leading Mr. Wrong or turning Mr. Right off. Be yourself and be real. Little white lies will get you nowhere!

That’s it for this edition of the Campus 5.

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